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[ t h e d e v e l o p e d f r o n t a l l o b e ]
a blog.
lessons learned by people in their mid-twenties.
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[not quite the ending]
I’m walking away with more confidence, more skills, and a deeper sense of who I am as a journalist and a storyteller. We’re not at the finish line yet, but we’re getting there. And I’m really proud of this chapter.

Aisha Frazier
Apr 232 min read
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[the sitdown ep. two] meet cris.
Tune in to learn more about Cris and her beautiful, unfolding mid-twenties journey. Trust me, you’re going to love her as much as I do.

Aisha Frazier
Apr 231 min read
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[the sitdown] a podcast.
I've got a new podcast! Same me, new format. It is a direct extension of my blog — but instead of reading my rambles, you now get to hear me ramble straight into your ear about the highs and lows of being 25. You're welcome (or I'm sorry, depending on the day).

Aisha Frazier
Apr 231 min read
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[This is Aisha] My life narrated by AI!
This class has been so much more than just writing blog posts. We were also asked to produce a video about ourselves, along with two podcast episodes. Anyway, let me know what you think of my AI-narrated video — it’s a quick glimpse into who I am and a few things I love!

Aisha Frazier
Apr 231 min read
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Pride and Pressures of Being First-Generation: How Isabella Jarvis is shaping her future
A bad gyal with a dream – that's Isabella (Bella) Jarvis. Isabella Jarvis in front of a quilt inside the Stone Center. She’s a...

Aisha Frazier
Apr 233 min read
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[the chaos of cramming]
Me and procrastination go together like white on rice — and I hate that for me. Every semester, I start off with the best of intentions. Every semester, I start off with the best of intentions.

Aisha Frazier
Apr 232 min read
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[fixing the budgeting blues]
This week was hard, to say the absolute least. However, a lecture about personal finance gave me valuable tools to utilize in the future.

Aisha Frazier
Apr 203 min read
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Q & A with DJ Wicked: Durham-based DJ reflects on career as a DJ and identity
Last year, I had the chance to sit down with one of the RDU area's top DJs. At just 24, DJ Wicked has been mastering the soundboard for most of her life. As I reflect on life in my mid-twenties, it only felt right to share some of the gems from our conversation for the person of the week.]

Aisha Frazier
Apr 165 min read
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[how will you meet new people if you never leave the house?]
I’m so excited to see where these friendships with F.O.F. lead. All I had to do was leave my comfort zone and my house to find them.

Aisha Frazier
Mar 183 min read
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'I always thought the rest of it would work itself out': How Ellie McIntyre is navigating law school, mid-twenties
Like many 25-year-olds, Ellie is navigating the evolving nature of friendships. With distance now separating her from childhood and college

Aisha Frazier
Feb 273 min read
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[b.r.b]
I’m launching a new Person of the Week series, starting with Ellie McIntyre, a 25-year-old law student navigating life.

Aisha Frazier
Feb 72 min read
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[take your PTO]
This weekend, I finally took a much-needed break. I don’t get those often. I actually used my PTO... wild concept, I know.

Aisha Frazier
Jan 293 min read
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[turning twenty-five flipped my life upside down]
Welcome to [ t h e  d e v e l o p e d  f r o n t a l  l o b e].Â
I hope you find something meaningful in the stories shared here.

Aisha Frazier
Jan 224 min read
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